Sunday, March 26, 2006

languages

The Five Love Languages

My primary love language is probably
Quality Time
with a secondary love language being
Physical Touch.

Complete set of results

Quality Time:  8
Physical Touch:  7
Acts of Service:  6
Words of Affirmation:  5
Receiving Gifts:  4


Information

Unhappiness in relationships, according to Dr. Gary Chapman, is often due to the fact that we speak different love languages. Sometimes we don't understand our partner's requirements, or even our own. We all have a "love tank" that needs to be filled in order for us to express love to others, but there are different means by which our tank can be filled, and there are different ways that we can express love to others.

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well, this basically tells me what i thot
that i have no clue
that i am totally messed up
because, i want it all
only thing being really minor, is gifts

and then again, it might be fairly accurate
because i hate to make someone spend time with me, if they dont want to. i would much rather prefer to know that they really DO want to spend that time with me, and spend it with me of their own free will.
and physical touch? i've often lamented the fact that no one touches me. not even a hand on my back in passing.
acts of service? that one seems accurate too. i dislike asking someone to do anything for me, because then i am beholden to them. but all the time that mom spent with me, helping me get my house ready last summer? it meant an awful lot to me.
words of affirmation? every time i try to read btw the lines, i get confused. its much easier and better for me, to just be told. and then of course, i become completely embarassed.
see? i want it all
how messed up am i?

2 Comments:

At 11:50 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Glad you posted this quiz. I took it, too and posted it on my xanga. Gifts for me were a 1! Not sure I'd put them quite THAT low (haha!), but I'd definitly rather have touch and time!

 
At 10:34 AM, Blogger FRIDAY'S CHILD said...

I took the test too. Pretty cool.

 

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